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14. "I'm a drug dealer fleeing the police," talking online dating with Lily Diamond, Matthew Martin, and Esme Infante - Part 1

14. "I'm a drug dealer fleeing the police," talking online dating with Lily Diamond, Matthew Martin, and Esme Infante - Part 1

Update: 2022-02-08
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1. Online dating is quite the journey no matter your sexual orientation and gender

2. Online dating is “work”

3. Meeting face-to-face quickly helps to not “waste time” on a relationship that won’t work

4. Meeting face-to-face quickly sometimes leads to uncomfortable (potentially dangerous) consequences

5. According to our cisgender male guest, “Men are lazy” 😂

Show notes: malikadudley.com/show-notes

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14. "I'm a drug dealer fleeing the police," talking online dating with Lily Diamond, Matthew Martin, and Esme Infante - Part 1

14. "I'm a drug dealer fleeing the police," talking online dating with Lily Diamond, Matthew Martin, and Esme Infante - Part 1

Malika Dudley, Lily Diamond, Matthew Martin, Esme Infante